Lily Cade
Also known as "Porn Valley's Gold Star Lesbian"
Career
Active 2009 – 2018
Biography
About Lily Cade
Lily Cade is a former American adult performer who entered the industry in 2009 and remained active through 2018. She started her career in butch-femme and fetish work before moving into mainstream girl/girl scenes. Known as "Porn Valley's Gold Star Lesbian," Cade is openly lesbian and never performed with a man. She is a 41-year-old Caucasian with red hair, brown eyes, a 5'6" frame, and an average body type.
Throughout her nine years in the industry, Cade gained attention for her work with women, including scenes with over a dozen Penthouse Pets such as Kayden Kross, Taylor Vixen, and Darcie Dolce. She also starred in the award-winning erotic story Lily Cade's Hot Tub Time Machine, in which she performed with 1990s legend Racquel Darrian. In her personal life, she married her college sweetheart Sten Cade in 2008 after dating since 2005. The marriage is open, and she has stated she does not believe in monogamy. Both she and Sten were in an open relationship with actress Laurel Norton, who lived with them.
Cade's career ended in 2018 after allegations of sexual assault and abusive behavior surfaced. Several women in the industry have publicly accused her of pressuring them into sex. She later drew further controversy in 2021 when a BBC article quoted her wishing for the death of all trans people, and she has identified as a militant TERF. She has a black horse tattoo on her right arm and a clithood piercing.
Record
Profile details
Personal
- Years Active
- 2009-2018 (started around 24 years old; 9 years active)
- Birthplace
- Los Angeles, California, United States
- Ethnicity
- Caucasian
- Sexuality
- Lesbian
Body
- Hair Color
- Red
- Eye Color
- Brown
- Weight
- 150 lbs (or 68 kg)
- Measurements
- 32–27–36 (B–W–H) · WHR 0.75
- Bra/Cup Size
- 32C show conversions - UK: 32C, EU: 70C, AU: 10C, JP: 70C
- Boobs
- Real/Natural
- Tattoos
- Black horse, right arm;
- Piercings
- Clithood
Frequently asked
Why did Lily Cade leave the porn industry?
She stopped working in 2018 after allegations of sexual assault against women in restrooms, with several performers later saying she was abusive and pressured them for sex.
What type of scenes is Lily Cade known for?
She performed exclusively in girl/girl content, never with a man, and was known for work with Penthouse Pets and mainstream lesbian scenes.
Was Lily Cade married?
She married her college sweetheart Sten Cade in 2008, and they had an open relationship, which she has said she does not believe in monogamy.
How did Lily Cade's career begin?
She started in butch-femme and fetish modeling in 2009, later transitioning to mainstream girl/girl porn.
Did you know
- Lily Cade has a tattoo of a black horse on her right arm and a clithood piercing.
- Her award-winning scene with Racquel Darrian was set in a jacuzzi, styled after a time-travel theme.
- She and her husband Sten had a shared open relationship with actress Laurel Norton, who lived with them.
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